In Search of Lost Time - In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower Part 1

 

“In the case of M. de Nopais, however, the most important thing was that, through long practice of diplomacy, he had deeply inbred himself with the spirit known as ‘government mentality’; that negative, ingrained conservative spirit which informs not jus the mentality of all governments but in particular, inside of all governments that of the foreign office” (7).

               The Claudel mentioned in this early section is Camille Claudel’s brother. 

               “ . . . because words have a great worth and more subtle shade of meaning, for men whose efforts over a decade to bring together two countries may amount to a single adjective in a speech or protocol but in which unremarkable though it may appear, they can read volumes.” (8)  - - --Like the difference between kill (taking of a life) and murder (unlawful killing).

               “Furthermore, as with all those who are too modest, my mother’s mistake came from the fact that she always ranked her own interests below those of others, and thus saw them as quite separate from others” (10).

               His obsession with La Berma is like what I had when I needed to see Glenda Jackson in Lear. Oh that was a good play.

               Copenhagen Glyptothek mentioned!  Loved that museum.

               Sesquipedalianism – excessive use of long words. 

               “ . . . in politics, it was a mark of superiority rather than inferiority to repeat what everybody else thought” (31).  Well, that hasn’t changed.

 

               “The culture of these eminent men was of the alternating variety, usually triennial in its cycle” (34).  Every thing old is new again.  It’s what, about twenty years or so now, right?

               So Odette married Swann after Gilberte was born, at times threatening to forbid him access to the children.  Change in laws  since Dumas than right? 

               Jejune – naïve

               A lot of name dropping going on.  How old is he supposed to be in this early love affair with Gilberte, who is 14 I believe.

               “Of course, Swann many well have known that magnanimity is often nothing more than the outward appearance of a selfish impulse that we have not yet seen as such or named” (65).

               Look, a sexual awakening in a garden.    That’s not new at all.  Seriously, how old is he?  He’s not at school.

               “Odette stood for everything which had just been shamed” (94).

               “ . . . but then Swann, who had borrowed from the aristocracy Don Juan’s undying gift  for fooling each of the commonplace women into believing she is the only one he really loves” (96).

               This narrator is far to focused on what the mother of his would be girlfriend wears.  “Stacy’s Mom has got it going on” indeed.

               “Which is why the artist who wishes his work to find its own way must do what  Vinteuil had done, and launch it as far as possible toward the unknown depths of the distant future. (106).

               So is everything about Bergotte really about Anatole France?

               “For genius lies in the reflective power and not in the intrinsic quality of the scene reflected” (129).

               “Peace of mind is foreign to love, since each new fulfillment one attains is never anything but a new starting point for the desire to go beyond it” (156).

               “In love, happiness is an abnormal state, capable of instantly conferring on the pettiest seeming incident which can occur at any moment, a degree  of gravity that in other circumstances it would never have.” (157).

               “ . . . (that day when according to the guilty, their innocence will be established, which is never, for some mysterious reason, the day when they are being asked about it” (160).

               “If we are to make reality endurable, we must all nourish a fantasy or two” (167).

               “Things one may see on or about a faithful wife, which may well have some importance for the faithful wife, are the very things that have the most importance  for the courtesan.  The climax of her day is not the moment when she dresses for society, but when she undresses for a man.  She has to be as elegant in a housecoat or a nightgown as in an walking out dress.  Other women show off their jewels,; she shares her private life with her pearls.  It is a type of life that demands, and eventually gives a taste for, the enjoyment of secret luxury – that is a life which is almost one of disinterest” (169).

               Is that really the case or is narrator trying to make himself feel better about women?  He gives his Aunt’s furniture to some prostitutes.  It sounds like it is in one display in a brothel.  I can’t blame Gilberte for being fed up, considering how much he talks about Odette Swann.

“ . . . I was distressed as an invalid who has finished his vial of morphine without having another available” (185).

               “Neurotics never believe people who assure them that, if they just stay in bed,  read no letters, and open no newspapers, they will gradually calm down.  They foresee that such a regimen can only worsen the state of their nerves” (185).

               Of course, Odette prefers men to women, look who is telling the story.

               On Odette’s style, “One could sense that, for her, dressing was not just a matter of comfort or adornment of the body: whatever she wore encompassed her like the delicate and etherealized epitome of civilization” (195).

               This is why the young girls don’t like you Narrator, you like the moms too much.

               “To be no longer in love is to know that forgetting – or even a fading memory -  cause much less pain than the unhappiness of loving” (197).

               “This explains why every new pain that a woman inflict on us (which she often does without meaning to) increases not only her power over us, but also the demands we make on her.  By every use of her power to hurt, the woman constricts us more and more, shackling us with stronger chains; but she also shows us the weakness of those that once seemed strong enough to bind her and thus enable us to feel untroubled by her” (200-201).  Odette never did anything unless she thought about it first, I am sure.

               He has to be young, he keeps throwing himself in the arms of his mom or grand mere.

               “For miserliness, being a vice and therefore at home in any social class, is in no way incompatible with prestige” (242).

               I am not convinced he was in love with Gilberte.  He sounds like he just liked looking at Madame Swann.

 

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Edition cited:

Proust, Marcel.  In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower.  Trans. James Grieve.  Penguin, 2002.

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